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  1. #1001
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    Miko'to Khagami
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarajasLowe View Post
    I was speaking with other fc member, who also goes to the gym. Why should i care about what you need to know? This kind of bubble thing is what i'm talking about. This is kind of dictatorship that you get to decide what hobby is ok to talk about sounds really immature.
    If people are uncomfortable with the topic in public, you're free to take it to private. Keep that in mind. Just because people aren't children doesn't mean they're comfortable with that discussion. Make a linkshell for that purpose if you feel the need to have a group to talk to about it.

    Quote Originally Posted by SarajasLowe View Post
    Conversation took like 2 mins. It wasn't like suspended one hour talk about the thing. I came home from my gym, and mentioned "squats done!" other guy replied he also did them and that his legs hurt so much. I told him to bear with it that you know man it does wonders for your sex life. Improves blood circulation. That's it. Does that sound unreasonable to you?
    edit: got daily post locked which is a sign that i took my melatonin at the right time, but without full context it's hard to judge properly. if this is exactly how it went down I don't think you're fully unreasonable, but it's also not my space, so I can't judge fully, y'know? Just giving a suggestion for making your own space for your purpose of talk
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    Last edited by PeekayTom; 07-04-2021 at 07:42 PM.

  2. #1002
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    Sarajas Lowe
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    Quote Originally Posted by PeekayTom View Post
    If people are uncomfortable with the topic in public, you're free to take it to private. Keep that in mind. Just because people aren't children doesn't mean they're comfortable with that discussion. Make a linkshell for that purpose if you feel the need to have a group to talk to about it.
    Conversation took like 2 mins. It wasn't like suspended one hour talk about the thing. I came home from my gym, and mentioned "squats done!" other guy replied he also did them and that his legs hurt so much. I told him to bear with it that you know man it does wonders for your sex life. Improves blood circulation. That's it. Does that sound unreasonable to you?
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  3. #1003
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    Effeth's Avatar
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    Dissidia Duodecim
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    Balmung
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    Played since the original FF14 inception but always had it as a sidegame (main WoW, but sub just ran out and i've got no reason to renew it) until a bit over a month ago, and well, I concurr with some posters here concerning the way how some FF14 players view the ones coming from WoW.

    Anecdotal? Sure, but I'm not surprised it has left a bad taste with many new players, especially with how fondly the FF14 community is talked about in other games. (gen. speaking)
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  4. #1004
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    Tyss Kaatapoh
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    Brynhildr
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarajasLowe View Post
    I was speaking with other fc member, who also goes to the gym. Why should i care about what you need to know? This kind of bubble thing is what i'm talking about. This is kind of dictatorship that you get to decide what hobby is ok to talk about sounds really immature.
    In that case, instead of broadcasting it in the public channel, why not take it to private messages? The game itself is not an adult exclusive game. And even if the FC is made up of all adults - that doesn't mean they don't have children at home who come in and see their screens. Those people may prefer the chat to stay in more 'PG' areas.
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  5. #1005
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    Rinh Neftereh
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    Quote Originally Posted by PeekayTom View Post
    I've taken a melatonin at this point and am too tired to get my own long response but the problem isn't the LGBT community, but the greater human community, I feel. It's also just that we live in an era of change right now, and change can be messy. Hopefully we all come out for the better.
    no sweat, I didn't expect it to turn out that long either!
    just don't become dependent on melatonin for your sleep, though!

    Quote Originally Posted by PeekayTom View Post
    If people are uncomfortable with the topic in public, you're free to take it to private. Keep that in mind. Just because people aren't children doesn't mean they're comfortable with that discussion. Make a linkshell for that purpose if you feel the need to have a group to talk to about it.
    tbh, adults shouldn't feel uncomfortable when people talk about sex in what I assume was proclaimed as a "mature" FC - unless they've had a traumatic experience (but I feel like Sarajas would've mentioned that, imo)
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  6. #1006
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    Quote Originally Posted by Effeth View Post
    Played since the original FF14 inception but always had it as a sidegame (main WoW, but sub just ran out and i've got no reason to renew it) until a bit over a month ago, and well, I concurr with some posters here concerning the way how some FF14 players view the ones coming from WoW.

    Anecdotal? Sure, but I'm not surprised it has left a bad taste with many new players, especially with how fondly the FF14 community is talked about in other games. (gen. speaking)
    Yeah, exactly. I feel better not to mention my MMO background just so people don't go racist on me.
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  7. #1007
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tyssyn View Post
    In that case, instead of broadcasting it in the public channel, why not take it to private messages? The game itself is not an adult exclusive game. And even if the FC is made up of all adults - that doesn't mean they don't have children at home who come in and see their screens. Those people may prefer the chat to stay in more 'PG' areas.
    "Conversation took like 2 mins. It wasn't like suspended one hour talk about the thing. I came home from my gym, and mentioned "squats done!" other guy replied he also did them and that his legs hurt so much. I told him to bear with it that you know man it does wonders for your sex life. Improves blood circulation. That's it. Does that sound unreasonable to you?"
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  8. #1008
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    MapleSyrup345's Avatar
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    Sistine Fibel
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarajasLowe View Post
    "Conversation took like 2 mins. It wasn't like suspended one hour talk about the thing. I came home from my gym, and mentioned "squats done!" other guy replied he also did them and that his legs hurt so much. I told him to bear with it that you know man it does wonders for your sex life. Improves blood circulation. That's it. Does that sound unreasonable to you?"
    If they're not comfortable talking about it m8, you should respect that.
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  9. #1009
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    Just watched some of the highlights. Would say I'm surprised but I'm not. So many people grouping around him ruining the gaming experience. The man has a patience of a saint.

    I just hope this didn't spoil his enjoyment and quit cause of people in the FF community had to ruin it.
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  10. #1010
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarajasLowe View Post
    "Conversation took like 2 mins. It wasn't like suspended one hour talk about the thing. I came home from my gym, and mentioned "squats done!" other guy replied he also did them and that his legs hurt so much. I told him to bear with it that you know man it does wonders for your sex life. Improves blood circulation. That's it. Does that sound unreasonable to you?"
    Oh, no, that's not at all overly much. But then again, people are.. people and some will be way one extreme or another.
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