The great streamer Asmongold is joining FFXIV

[PeekayTom]

and yet if you don't support the right brand of the movement you'll be declared as bigot, transphobe, harassed and whatnot because you, for example, don't agree with the aforementioned neo-pronouns, otherkin or other things that ever so slightly deviate from the hivemind
not like a political discussion has any place here, but the hypocrisy and double standards in the (various) lgbt movements are insane at times

I think part of the problem is that you're either running into children who've yet to learn full maturity but are being accelerated in so much aggressive behaviors that are rampant across all of society right now (where everything is politics and everyone has to fight instead of having conversations; ie, my gender isn't politics, my gender is me, but for some reason that upsets some religious fanatics who have control of the country I live in), or you're running into people trying to invent someone for you to get mad at. Quite possible that it happened with today's situation as well! But who knows.
I think as well, that you're calling it a hivemind, says that you never had a very high opinion of LGBT stuff to begin with, but I'd like to give you the benefit of the doubt. All that you really should be aware of is that people have been gaslit for many decades, if not centuries, and people are getting tired. It's the same as how we're told we can't do anything about climate change as the world is falling apart around us. But someone could just say "No it isn't" and so on.

Just be, more accepting of others, more understanding, and try to work together and understand. Don't get discouraged.