Final Fantasy XIV and a Culture of Enabling

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I don't see it as that. The game itself forces her to group with players to do the content, and it is not her fault she enjoys what she enjoys.

This is a multiplayer game so I don't really see this as an excuse since it's what you signed up for.

She does not do harder content because she understands she is not a min/max player. She only does group content that the game makes her do to keep on the storyline. So the issue is not with her and how she wants to play. It is the game design that requires her to group up at times for big bosses.

Multiplayer game, not singleplayer.

Grouping is fine, but players must be understanding that the content they do is design for players like her to beat. So being annoyed because she wants to play like that is silly in my books.

Content is made to be done by people who put in the work to do it, the amount is just different.

Respect the fact that this is a multiplayer game and not a single player one and that regardless of it not being malicious it does not negate the fact your wife intentionally wastes other player's time because she has skills she doesn't like using.

It's fine to play how you want to play but own up to it.

I play the game wrong but still clear content efficiently because I told my group up front this is how I play and how I want to play if it becomes a problem I'll either get better, stop or find another group.