What if a highlander couple adopted a male au ra? He wouldn't be able to wear the talisman. His parents might think he's rejecting their culture but really he's just physically unable to put it on.

Most of the miqo'te tribes seem to wear subligars, but their racial underwear is lacy boyshorts. But you don't ever see lace poking out from under their subligars so they clearly aren't wearing them. But then they aren't really underwear, are they? Technically I think subligaria is ancient roman underwear. So then what are these lacy boyshorts? Pajamas? Formal wear? When should a miqo'te wear them? I need to know!