FF14 is not made for hardcore players.

[NanaWiloh]

Its not hard too ask if people want advice. Yes, some people dont take criticism well and others find it rude to be given advice when they didn't ask for it. So if you are going to just throw advice out there then be ready to get an earful. People are free to reject advice in any manner they choose their under no obligation to listen or accept. Just as those giving it are under no obligation to ask if its wanted.

M.bison- "I don't remember asking for your indepth opinion of the situtation." <-- Someone who finds unsolicited advice rude

Darth Sidius- "NO,NO,NO" <-- Someone who does not handle advice well at all