FF14 is not made for hardcore players.

[Driavna]

Indeed it is.
When content is so trivial in nature (e.g. Dungeons/24mans/normal primals), it's borderline idiotic to make a fuss about player performance, let alone kicking people for not measuring up to your made-up standard.

Keep such aspirations to content where it matters and just roll with what you get in the DF tool.
After all, you are rewarded with currency for dragging pretty much anything with 2 feet through the content.

Personally, I stopped getting worked up over lame player performance a long time ago. Just not worth my time unless the content demands it.

Is a social game. If you are in a party and 3 of 4 members don't want to rush they are on their right to kick the other one. The same applies to the other way around.