Quote Originally Posted by Goji1639 View Post
If i were to walk up to you and your friends and publicly offer you some polite advice to help with your bedwetting problem, that would be rude of me. You address problems with people in private; that's basic social etiquette.
Making extreme or outright nonsensical comparisons like this is not only disingenuous but shows you have no worthwhile argument to make. A proper comparison would be say, offering advice to someone in a random pickup game of Basketball if they clearly aren't playing well. You might never see this person again but in that moment their performance directly impacts your chances of winning. Therefore, it's in yours and their best interest to improve. Even if the advise offered is unsolicited. If they dismissed you and continued playing the way they wanted, no one would bat an eyelash if they were then "kicked" off the team.

But you didn't use that comparison because ruins your argument.