Quote Originally Posted by AngelCheese77 View Post
In truth, when I looked up gear from Eulmore, I saw posts about that specifically. That and my husband told me about it since someone made him a set to then use tomes on. Eh, I guess part of me also wants the best I can get outside of raiding as a safety net.
Neo-Ishgardian gear (specifically the HQ variants) is the best crafted gear you can get right now; Facet gear is the previous crafted tier. Basically, it goes (more or less):
  1. i450 gear = Facet gear (crafted) or Edengate gear (obtained from the normal mode of the first four Eden raids)
  2. i460 gear = Augmented Facet gear (upgraded from crafted) or YoRHa gear (dropped in Copied Factory) or Deepshadow (bought with tomes of Phantasmagoria)
  3. i470 gear = Augmented Deepshadow (upgraded from Deepshadow) or Edengrace gear (obtained in savage mode of the first four Eden raids)
  4. i480 gear = Neo-Ishgardian gear (crafted) or Edencall gear (obtained in normal mode of the second four Eden raids) or Idealized gear (obtained in the Extreme mode of Memoria Misera)
  5. i485 weapon = beginning stage of the Resistance Weapon relic weapon.
  6. i490 gear = Crystarium Gear (bought with tomes of Allegory)
  7. i500 gear = Augmented Crystarium Gear (upgraded from Crystarium gear) or Edenchoir gear (obtained in savage mode of the second four Eden raids)

Up to i470 was from the previous tier; when the second set of Eden raids dropped, that's when we got i480/i490/i500 gear. I'm guessing the guide you found was from before then, where Augmented Facet was the best you could get outside of the i470 raid gear.

I'd expect we'll see another option for i490 (gear dropped in the next YoRHa alliance raid, probably) in 5.3. When the final set of Eden raids comes out, there'll be another set of gear stacked on top of the i500 stuff. So right now, the i480 Neo-Ishgardian gear is the best crafted stuff you can get, and the Crystarium Gear is the best tome-based purchase (though the Crystarium weapon requires drops from the Eden raids to get, presently). If you aren't into the idea of raiding to climb the gear ladder, Neo-Ishgardian will do you fine right now.

So short of "the Facet gear is the option I can afford", there's no reason to go for Augmented Facet over Neo-Ishgardian at this point if you have the option. And you can pick up an i485 relic weapon more or less for free (well, for doing a solo instance for the first one), which will be slightly better than the Neo-Ishgardian weapon.

Quote Originally Posted by AngelCheese77 View Post
Well was my first time there, and I do know I panicked a little. I don't know much about GNB, but their HP plummeted real fast after 1 or 2 hits. I have been told numerous times that materia only matters in end game (Lvl 80 right now), so I have been in the mind that it is needed to handle the mechanics of the harder dungeons.
Materia isn't really necessary for the endgame dungeons, but it doesn't hurt. And it can give you more breathing room if you're finding yourself pressed more than you're comfortable with.

Quote Originally Posted by AngelCheese77 View Post
I've learned over the times that overhealing is just as bad as underhealing. I normally start with a Medica II, then after the tank gets aggro, I slap a Regen on them and the shielding thingie. But that first boss in Twinning .. JFC, I dunno if it was because of such a small arena or something else.
Everyone's got their own approach! For trash pulls I tend to throw Divine Benison ('the shielding thingie') on the tank as they pull the first set, then drop Regen on them after they settle in with their final set of mobs. If they're a little squishier than I'd like, I drop Asylum or pop Temperance fairly quickly, but otherwise I'll just start spamming Holy; that will keep the mobs stunned for a while (and stunned mobs are mobs that aren't damaging the tank) and wait on Asylum or Temperance until the mobs are no longer able to be stunned.

And the Twinning has a couple of unpleasant trash pulls anyway. (Looking at you, Mark CXLIV Thermocoil Boilbusters. You and your overlapping donut AoEs are the worst-behaved coffee machines ever. I liked your distant Mark XIV ancestor, but you? Not so much.)

Quote Originally Posted by AngelCheese77 View Post
Oh I'm sure my healing rotation isn't optimal, and I do get a bit anxious when healing when stressed, but I LOVE healing more than the other classes. Not sure why. I've never felt bored as a WHM, and saving a group with a well timed healer LB3 gives me fuzzies.
Oh, it's not about 'optimal'; outside of raids, 'optimal' is just overkill. It's more about finding the strategy that's most comfortable for you. For me, that's mitigating when I can and generally ensuring I don't have to heal as much in the first place. That might be a strategy that works better for you. But I also know non-raid healers who find they prefer to react in the heat of the moment because trying to plan ahead stresses them out more. My point was just that experimenting with different approaches to find what works best for you might make more of a difference than just materia does.

I feel you on the healing thing, though. I DPS and tank as well, but in my heart I'm always a healer. I started out as a CNJ when I started the game, and as much as I love AST as well, I will remain a WHM main in my heart until the day the game shuts down or I'm hit by a bus.

Quote Originally Posted by AngelCheese77 View Post
I'll search for that Discord since it doesn't seem to be an open on I can find .. hm. Thanks for the info!
The Balance website is... not really up to date, but the Discord link is there on the front page, or you can just join directly.

Hopefully this all helps a little?