What you're stating here isn't a rule the game enforces; it's a preference that you have regarding other peoples playstyles. If you don't share your preferences then the tank is going to perform his role in the way he's most comfortable with.I believe i explained why the strangers youre with expect you to behave a certain way, as it is the most logical an beneficial in the vast majority of cases. Except you ignored that part. If there is a general way something is done and you want to do it differently then the onus is on you to communicate not the other way around, expecting everyone to declare their intentions is unreasonable especially as explained (which you ignored) it makes the most sense to do it one way over another.
Your opinions and preferences aren't known entities or rules that other people will have committed to memory. These aren't your friends, family or even acquaintances; they're strangers. If you don't communicate with them your preferences won't be regarded. Plenty of healers don't care if the tank pulls slow, and plenty of healers do actually ASK for big pulls; so this little rule of yours isn't even community enforced. This is all your personal social ineptitude.
I never said I made things better. Bad communities tend to bring out the worst in me. I'm also, however, a pretty nice person when around other nice people.
This community just seems to like to be disrespectful and pick fights; and I've always been the type to fight back.
This topic went exactly how I wanted it to; in that I wanted to say my piece about Rescue. I could care less who agrees with me and who doesn't, I'm just venting.
I've adjusted my stance to simply changing Rescue into a toggle that people can opt out of, though, which you conveniently ignored.
Also, I'm not the one who brought up Blacklisting. Other people decided to inform me of their decision to do that to me, like it would actually have an impact on me. I was simply responding.
I'm sure I'm approaching my post limit, so I'm just gonna do this.This is a judgment call on the healer, and the more the healer participates in content where the use of Rescue will undoubtedly come up, and the more aware the healer is of other jobs and the encounter; the better they get with those judgments.
The intent is obviously in the name of the ability; the rest is just you rationalizing. If you feel like the intent of the ability is to force tanks to pull more than they want to then by all means keep telling yourself that. That's pretty obviously a misuse, exploitative and disruptive, though.