I'm close to 5000 commendations and I'm still toxic regardless if I use the crown or not, lol.

I get annoyed with single pulls, because as a tank you should pull all the things to the wall unless damage is severely impaired. Your anxiety has to go away at some point, because it's really just a matter of you using your AoEs to hit all the things. Aggro is stupid easy now.

Part of the issue is the barrier to entry for the crafting mentor is too easy compared to battle mentor. So if you see the hammer giving you battle advice, this is a fair warning. Anyone worth a lick can turn-in collectables, playing solo, and have no people skills.

It was great to get rid of bads in the last wave with too low of commendations. Which is a good formula to determine someone isn't "bad" with people. Whether it's social skill, doing decent damage, not being a 0 dps healer, etc. The more comms you have, the more likely you've done random party content for a considerable amount of time.