Quote Originally Posted by SamRF View Post
They were being nice to me by not being nice to themselves. Proceeding without me had pretty negligible consequences to me anyway so more harm was done than good. 1 person shouldn't spoil experience of other party members when they are redundant for proceeding the instance IMO.
Being nice to yourself and not to someone else is called selfishness. The opposite of what this thread is about.

As for a nice thing that happened to me, back in ARR I was working on my crafting and the Aethyrite (sp) Rings were the best at the time. I didn't have that craft leveled yet and I didn't have the gil to buy them. Another crafter just gave them to me. It was such a nice and unexpected surprise!