I mean you can be happy with yourself and still be anti social. I'm not saying you should stress out and let your fashion rule your life, but dressing up and how others see you is fun, and is part of living in a community. It plays a huge part of human history! I'm saying that not caring at all how others see you is not really normal. It is ok to not agree with how they see you, but not care at all? I'm not so sure.