Quote Originally Posted by Zabuza View Post
Is it not an issue rooted in insecurity? Why would you need to seek the approval of others if you were happy with yourself? Needing this approval from others would imply that such a person needs additional affirmation from others to bolster their opinion in themselves, as if they are uncertain of the value of their existence. That seems like insecurity to me.
That is strange logic, To say it does not feel good to have someone notice your style or whatever is crazy. In fact, some studies think it is a sign of good mental health and is a very healthy to care how others perceives you.

Insecurity is not the same thing. That is like saying most women have an insecurity problem. I mean even edge lords use fashion as a statement.


I don't NEED everyone to like my fashion, but if I spent time resources on said fashion. You darn right you will see it, and should not have the power to turn it off. You can hate my style all you want. It would not bother me, but you got to see it. That is all that I care about at the end of the day.