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    Player Wavaryen's Avatar
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    Jan 2015
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    Teladi Bishop
    World
    Balmung
    Main Class
    Fisher Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Joven View Post
    This made me laugh. Kudos to your girlfriend, she is a keeper.

    Though I will say that it's her choice to spend that money on her appearance, nobody is forcing her to doll herself up and I'm sure you'd love her regardless of how she looked, so assuming everyone needs to see you a certain way is personal perspective.
    I mean sure, but it is just how we grow up. I've had some women argue that to be accepted in a social area that they needed to follow said rules. It just depends on who you grow up with.


    I had my friend read some of this stuff, and he looked at me and said this mindset depends on where you live, and who you grew up with. (well he said only white people would say something that silly..but don't want to derail into that.) When he goes out, he buys new outfits and that is the normal being a young black man, and that was acceptable with his crew. Even being a white guy myself, they gave me hell on my looks at times. I mean this is kinda going off topic, but my point being with all this is that...I thought this was normal until I was reading some of the comments. I am shocked, and more amazed that people did not understand why how other people see us would matter to players, and also from a business side. Cash shop items and all that depends on it as well.


    I try to be a open mind and understand perspectives..even if this mindset feels alien to me.
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    Last edited by Wavaryen; 02-21-2020 at 05:41 AM.