Quote Originally Posted by Krotoan View Post
Except when the person who feels uncomfortable and is involved is the viewer and as has been outlined in many responses has no choice but to view the unwanted (and totally changeable by the wearer btw) glamour. Right?
It's not their problem that someone is so distressed by their own appearance because nothing in this game that can be glammed can be seen as offensive. If you turn on the TV and see someone that is so ugly that it physically distresses you, are you going to change the channel or call up the producers and ask them to give you the option to censor them? It is also not my problem that someone may have such a problem with me that they want to make me invisible entirely, I'm going to continue existing where I am and they don't have any right to change that, they can look away or go somewhere else.

Quote Originally Posted by Krotoan View Post
You are not an artist creating original works when you glamour your character.
"I don't want to see these glamours" does not equal "I want to steal and derive works from your artwork".
In the case of modifying someone's artwork without their permission, even if the artist doesn't see it, doesn't make it okay. Obviously these two scenarios aren't exactly the same but they are comparable.

Quote Originally Posted by Krotoan View Post
Number 1. not wanting to see someones glamour isn't murder or comparable in any way.
2. you are also asking people to just deal with something that concerns them so getting the argument turned back on you is fair play.
3. people are considering how they feel, and honestly you're never going to make everyone happy (this whole forum is full of threads caused by people unhappy about changes that affected them).
My use of the phrase "people die when they are killed" was used to point out the cause and effect of not allowing someone to do something obviously takes away a choice from them and is the entire point.

I deal with plenty of things I don't like by looking away. I don't need some rose tinted glasses to get rid of what I don't like that's right in front of me. By going to a Convention I am accepting that there is going to be people there that I don't like and that spending my time being upset over people who are going to be there whether i like it or not is a pointless waste of my time and energy.

Quote Originally Posted by Krotoan View Post
It's ridiculous to you that people are bothered by incongruous or flamboyant or revealing outfits, I can empathize because: imagine that same feeling when someone says that just the thought of their video game avatar possibly (not guaranteed, just maybe if they have the option on) not appearing on someone else's screen "correctly" distresses them to no end. It sounds incredibly trivial.
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