People need to learn to take responsibility for their own mistakes

[HiirNoivl]

Sure it's normal, for people who want to make themselves feel superior. Take the OP as an example.

"You know who you are!" Who are you trying to be, their mom?

Yes, Ms. Trunchbull, sir.

[TheVedis]

Sure it's normal, for people who want to make themselves feel superior. Take the OP as an example.

"You know who you are!" Who are you trying to be, their mom?

Yes, Ms. Trunchbull, sir.

this wasnt aimed at them in specific

even doctor mog above pointed out the kind of crap we see every day


they were just 1 of MANY MANY examples of this


people dont want to take responsibility for their actions, they make a mistake, instead of live and learn, they whine and moan and demand everyone fix it for them


in the example of the repair one. he made a mistake, yes, he made his mistake, but instead of live and learn, he goes on a rampage trying to get his money back and even going out of his way to badmouth the person who wont give it back to him
the person who got the money is in no way shape or form obligated to help him fix a mistake that is not his to fix, he made a good profit, it was 100% legit in what he did
but society the way it is, the person must demand their money back, not because its the right thing to do, but because he feels it is not his responsibility to be at fault and held responsible for his mistake.


that is the problem at hand here, the "you know who you are" is tal;king about the people in general who do this, not just the 1 specific person we all know recently did it

[HiirNoivl]

Just for the sake of argument let's say I believe you.

The thread was locked for a reason.

Hello Folks,

We are going to close this thread, now, as this is an in game matter and nothing can be done via the forums.

We understand the desire to debate and resolve this issue through the community but we feel this is best dealt with while in game.

Thank you for your understanding.

-Senior Game Master Jhanaka

Considering what the mod posted, please explain how YOUR thread is helpful.

[TheVedis]

Just for the sake of argument let's say I believe you.

The thread was locked for a reason.



Considering what the mod posted, please explain how YOUR thread is helpful.

Because I am not discussing his specific issue, this goes to all issues of such


lets expand more


people who click the wrong payment option(not talking about the system error ones but people who actualy did choose wrong option) and then claim that they are not responsible for doing so even if their are confirmation screens.

Lets go now to the cheaters in games, you know, the bots, who claim that they have a right to do so, and if they get caught, it is not their fault, its the developers fault for making it possible to begin with and how they should not be punished.

Now lets go to the people who go out, buy, open and install MMOs, they throw a fit because it has a subscription fee that they did not know about because they didnt look at what they bought(and now its unreturnable). They demand stores fix their mistake too.

The person who gets pulled over for doing 80 in a 30 zone, and complains that its not their fault, its the cops fault for catching them. They should not get a ticket because they dont deserve it because they needed to be somewhere that much quicker.


The murderer who found god and therefore shouldnt by given the death penaty because hes a new person(ok maybe this is going to far)


get my point? not dwelling on 1 issue here its a generalization about many many things.

[HiirNoivl]

Since you're not talking about that specific issue, I guess the timing of this post was strictly coincidental... and the post where you referred to THAT post you're not talking about was also coincidental.

Seriously who are you kidding?

[TheVedis]

Since you're not talking about that specific issue, I guess the timing of this post was strictly coincidental... and the post where you referred to THAT post you're not talking about was also coincidental.

Seriously who are you kidding?

That thread just happened to be the most recent, and the trigger for me posting this, but i can site plenty of other examples that are pretty much exactly what I am talking about


you seem rather defensive about all this too, theres no reason to be, im sure hes a friend of yours and you feel bad for him being from the same server, but get over it, he made a mistake, he can now live with it, no one is required to help him and should not even be expected to want to help him(sense of entitlement).

[ShellQ8]

I..

YOUR FAULT!

think..

YOUR FAULT!

that..

YOUR FAULT!

people..

YOUR FAULT!

make..

YOUR FAULT!

mistakes..

YOUR FAULT!

sometimes..

YOUR FAULT!

and yeah sometimes they don't have a right to ask for their stuff back, because it was a legit transaction

YOUR FAULT!

but in the end, they lost so much, so we shouldn't be surprised if they made a desperate post about it, all we can say is "tough luck, I hope it doesn't happen to you or anyone else again.."

[TheVedis]

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and yeah sometimes they don't have a right to ask for their stuff back, because it was a legit transaction

but in the end, they lost so much, so we shouldn't be surprised if they made a desperate post about it, all we can say is "tough luck, I hope it doesn't happen to you or anyone else again.."

but once again this isnt about that specific incident, there are tons this applies to and im getting a point across about how everyone always seems to go out of their way to make others fix their mistakes for them
its not their fault for doing it, therefore they shouldnt be held responsible for the outcome. everyhtiung should be reversable even if it negatively effects others involved.(and yes, it quite often does)

[HiirNoivl]

He's not my friend. I just have this abnormal feeling called empathy.

I know it's normal to laugh at another's misfortune, but I'm a bit handicapped in that regard.

I showed it to him and to MeowieWowie and to plenty of other terrible sinners who make mistakes and then dare come looking for some help on this forum.

EDIT: and in THAT post, I think it's understood that it is impossible for him to get that gil back simply because it was probably spent the moment he had it (which explains the lower than expected return, yes the guy offered to return it.) Once the gil was spent it was over.

[Delsus]

but once again this isnt about that specific incident, there are tons this applies to and im getting a point across about how everyone always seems to go out of their way to make others fix their mistakes for them
its not their fault for doing it, therefore they shouldnt be held responsible for the outcome. everyhtiung should be reversable even if it negatively effects others involved.(and yes, it quite often does)

Seems like some people selectively loose the ability to read, if they think this thread was only about the last complaint, hell I would have just blacklisted the guy and ran with my nice profit.

I do agree with you some people think a bug causes all problems (like people activating the wron character)