Quote Originally Posted by SweetestLily View Post
So the statement "we died because we didn't get healed" is ok but saying "we enraged because you didn't do enough dps" is frowned upon? Why do people think dps deserve special privileges. We know right away when a tank is losing aggro or not using cooldowns. We know right away when a healer is doing a poor job and not keeping the group alive. We know instantly when these two roles are lacking in their job but we DON'T and CAN'T know when a dps is lacking in theirs? All because people want to be carried through content they have no business
being in in the first place without being told to pull their weight .Ridiculous.
No. People have said in parties before "we failed the DPS check" it's never been a problem.

Specifically berating a player with a third party tool IS however frowned upon, and punishable.

Telling a player that he/she may want to brush up on his/her rotation and that Stone Sea Sky/Lawns may be a good starting point, and telling them you only want to help them improve is not harassment. It never has been.

The key things are harassment and third party tools.

If you want players to do their best, simply DO YOUR best to relay that information in a non harassing way.