At the end of the day, you're just speculating. In terms of martial prowess, male and female viera are equal. If we were to look into the synonyms of martial, I guess you could say the females are just as aggressive/military/war-like as the males. In terms of raw physical strength between males and females, if you don't count them as being equal in martial prowess as physical strength, then nothing has been confirmed on that end. It's a video game. Real world biology doesn't matter. We can just agree to disagree here.
I don't know, if we're talking about getting male viera as a playable character, and if we're discussing whether the males and females are equal in strength, then I think those stats speak for itself. I am not aware of racial stats being removed from the game, but please correct me if I'm wrong. Here's a link to the racial stats that I have found - it includes viera stats as well: https://ffxiv.consolegameswiki.com/w...ing_attributes
The stats differ between races/tribes, but not between genders. So, if male viera were to be implemented into the game, it would most likely have the same exact stats as its female counterparts. That means the same amount of strength. I know stats are so insignificant that it doesn't really make much of a difference gameplay wise, but that's not really what we're discussing.
And in response to the rest of your post, listen... I don't really care if people prefer one type of viera over the other, and if they choose to express that here. I don't mind when you do it, either. I may disagree with you, and I may have my own preferences when it comes to how I'd like male viera to look, but I don't mind you having your own opinion. I know I can come off as harsh sometimes, but I genuinely have no problems with you, just disagreements.
It's one thing to state your opinion and disagree with people. But it's another thing to rile people up intentionally, which is not what I'm saying you did, but it has been happening by the "one or two people who take it to those extremes" like you said.