Quote Originally Posted by Rasikko View Post
The decision to do that was risky, even though it was well warranted. The reason I say it's risky is because of the mini chain reaction from the biased FC member. I've seen chain reactions lead up to 10+ people leaving and usually taking the more popular members with them.. and FC not recovering. Circles within FCs can hold the FC itself hostage.
That's why there is this something called "leadership". Believe it or not, strong leadership isn't about being "friends" to everyone. It's about having clear guideline, impartial, and the ability to make the hard decision when necessary while having enough charisma to 'survive' such decision.

Quote Originally Posted by Yakoo View Post
It was on stream, but they deleted it when confronted about. As for them coming to my FC house, they tried to make provocations, threw insults, say chat spamming, big mount spamming, spell spamming and such to try and make me/FC members mad and lose control and harass them them back so they could counter-report us, we weren't going to give them that privilege.
Good for you and you should make sure your FC mates do the same. The moment you get dragged into their game you already lost, no matter the outcome.

You probably can even get greater satisfaction on this because, seeing them mobilizing people and waste their time on harassing you, it proves it's bothering them far more than it's bothering you. Buddhism has two teachings to tell people why they should never hold grudge and generally ignore unwarranted insults:

- When you hold a grudge against someone, you are the one letting it bothering and eating you on the inside while the person you're holding grudge against probably just moved on with their life.

- For someone to gives, there must be someone to receive. One can only insult another if that person react to it. Meaning, someone can only insult you if you are willingly to receive that insult. (Tbh with the culture of "I can be insulted by anything and everything is offensive" we live in these day, I wish people are a bit more stoic about it).