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  1. #51
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    Hacchan's Avatar
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    Fei Soulstar
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    There's a couple of details that, in the way you posted, just ring a red alarm on the your post.
    Let's start with the obvious: stating the R card which just scream the bs alarm right away, it's rare for anybody to comes out instantly about it without wanting to use it as shock value or plain lie.
    If it was the case, and that you're emotionally unstable when seeing certain behavior, you'd have issues with the game long before even reaching PvP (*wink wink* Sastasha), let's add to that you're playing on Balmung, server with an infamous reputation for it's quality role play.

    The wording.

    People get a kick out of making obscene emotes.
    Obscene emotes over fallen bodies.
    Very Obscene and insulting things.
    etc..

    Oh the agony.. they are burning the field Robert, they are tossing the children by the windows.. THE WINDOWS! and they are defiling the tombs with Bepsi!

    You're exaggerating a lot there and since you're not posting or detailing what have been done then i'll take it you just got flustered over basic taunting from someone squatting for t-bag or dance.
    If the emote was of a more serious nature (custom emote for example but not sure those show up in frontline) and is obviously abusive like Pewster Kickster spit on Andy Dandy cuz he ded like a weak then yeah it's aggressive/toxic and shouldn't be allowed to fly by without a warning. But if it's just generic t-bagging with the squat emote then who cares.. Taunting exist in gaming since the dawn of times and the beginning of multiplayer and anybody at some point did it to someone else and nobody fell from their chair (aside in anger due to poor emotion management). As long as it's not pushing boundaries and remain child-play then there's nothing wrong with it since angering the opponent is a valid strategy to get to some try hard.

    Your post just feel like it's someones mom reacting on the facebook about what she saw when little Timmy was playing GTA or CoD, shooting all the innocent pixels and then bloods all over the screen, screams and gut spilling out, in short, exaggerating and blowing thing out of proportion...
    Maybe some of this is true, and i'm sorry for you if it's the case, but this is the internet and the default stance is that you shouldn't take everything at face value. Your post lack proper example of what has been done regarding the issue making it hard to believe a lot of it, especially with the wording and the r card.

    Let's not confuse obvious toxicity (Nice Job! spam) with generic taunting or child-play provocation (Squat - Dancing). If you're taking those things way too seriously or to a point you get emotionally annoyed by them, i'd take a couple step back on it and see how ridiculous you're being for overreacting over this.
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    Last edited by Hacchan; 10-21-2019 at 10:53 PM.

  2. #52
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    UnrealTai's Avatar
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    Laernu Tairos
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    This topics hilarious.
    Funny about CoD, I was thinking that too lol.
    theres like what only 5% of the hazing in ff compared to cod but ppl really cry over this?

    Being taunted is simply part of being in a vs mode period. Watch football? like ever?
    Ya sure, you see the OTHER team running right up and cheering when they get a TD against them hu. YA NO
    This is apart of playing in anything vs others. Period.
    Stop asking SE to do something about it. Just deal with it like every one game IRL or a video game or dont play. Its human nature, not gonna change.
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  3. #53
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    Ichinose Nekotan
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    Bait. Because actual traumatized victims don't go around shouting about their trauma. They especially don't go on a forum full of anonymous players and get upset by the responses.

    You also play on an ERPing server. Quit letting your delusions spill over onto the forums.
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  4. #54
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    Dark Knight Lv 100
    I emote on my kills cause they took away my sparklers. Ill jump on them if they remove my emotes. That level of toxicity is all in good fun imo and it's part of pvp culture. Like. Its just pixels on a screen, I ain't egging your car. Calm down.
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  5. #55
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    Exceeding Maxcuteness
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    Excalibur
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    White Mage Lv 54

    People do not like the name Jalin

    Jalin is an inept and stupid name for some reason my name is Jalin despite having no relation or history towards that name. I asked people on frontlines and they made fun of that name cause they think it is stupid so people ar eharrassing one another on frontlines it is bad
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  6. #56
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    Arctura Fengari
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    I went through many assaults in my past, and have been through a lot of physical trauma. I am diagnosed with PTSD, but even so, I did not not think about how teabagging could remind someone of being assaulted.

    Yes you need therapy, and work through your issues, and I commend you for bravely being open about it. That shows strength and growth on your part, but I don't see why we are defending teabagging. It's not like it benefits the team in anyway.

    It could have easily of been me, and I apologize directly for teabagging all the people that I have done it to. Characters we play in game are visual representations of ourselves that we connect to, and I believe that OP has a right to feel violated. I'm never teabagging ever again. Thank you for enlightening me by speaking up. I will never repeat my offending behavior. I wish I had known how such a simple action could drive a person to tears. That shouldn't happen in a place where we escape our daily lives. XIV should be healing and fun for all.
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  7. #57
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    Quote Originally Posted by FuriousOni View Post
    Bait. Because actual traumatized victims don't go around shouting about their trauma. They especially don't go on a forum full of anonymous players and get upset by the responses.

    You also play on an ERPing server. Quit letting your delusions spill over onto the forums.
    When I was first diagnosed I literally could not help it. Being strong and vocal helped me reset my boundaries and correct the ailments that were conflicting my mind. I have a feeling that OP is doing that, and should be given a little bit more sympathy. Establishing healthy behavioral patterns and boundaries is the first step after feeling like ruin. Let her reclaim her territory.

    Trauma affects part of your brain, and sends high levels of chemicals throughout your body. When you have triggers you literally cannot function until you learn how to cope with them on your own. Sometimes trauma is so great people can never recover. I.e. veterans of Vietnam still suffer today, and it's often taboo to ask them questions.
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  8. #58
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    Quote Originally Posted by DamianFatale View Post
    When I was first diagnosed I literally could not help it. Being strong and vocal helped me reset my boundaries and correct the ailments that were conflicting my mind. I have a feeling that OP is doing that, and should be given a little bit more sympathy. Establishing healthy behavioral patterns and boundaries is the first step after feeling like ruin. Let her reclaim her territory.

    Trauma affects part of your brain, such as having a name Jalin and sends high levels of chemicals throughout your body. When you have triggers you literally cannot function until you learn how to cope with them on your own. Sometimes trauma is so great people can never recover. I.e. veterans of Vietnam still suffer today, and it's often taboo to ask them questions.
    Yes I agree the name Jalin made me a paraplegic and induced severe trauma for years before I was able to reclaim my sanity. The SE mod who made my name Jalin is a sadist and one of the most evil people in the world. Jalin is a dumb name that gives trauma equivalent to the amount OP is going through if not more.
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  9. #59
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    Alijana Tumet
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    I've literally never seen anyone doing anything to taunt dead players throughout my 60+ FL games, so I'm thinking it's likely just a small few individuals being immature like this.
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  10. #60
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    Ryphen Darconel
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    Quote Originally Posted by KageTokage View Post
    I've literally never seen anyone doing anything to taunt dead players throughout my 60+ FL games, so I'm thinking it's likely just a small few individuals being immature like this.
    Get some more games under you belt and you'll see it eventually. I think the emoting took the place of the fireworks you can no longer use in matches. Although it doesn't seem anywhere near as common as fireworks usage was. But I'd agree that the vast majority of players do not engage is this behavior.
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