I have issues like this whenever I'm doing extreme or savage content. I feel that if I mess up and cause a wipe, everyone will hate me for it. I rarely use dps in ant content because parsers and "you are doing 0.00001 less dps than the top player, you suck go kill yourself."

Exaggerating a lot with the dps obviously but that's what my mind does.

Yeah in general that isn't true at all, but it doesn't stop that feeling. It's prevented me from doing any of that content since early stormblood. I won't even attempt it anymore.