Tactful ways to inform people that they're playing badly?

[Miracle_Diva]

This sort of comment is what the thread's about. You're replying regarding a new player 2 months into the game, always open to advice and the welcoming ff14 communities response is "lol can't even google". The same unhelpful sarcastic comments are why "bad" players don't listen in dungeons.

If a player being fully open to advice and tips isn't good enough for you, what on earth do you want?

I don't see a problem. You can find ANY info on the Internet. If you don't understand something irl, you ask someone who knows or you Google it. Not everyone has time to babysit every new player they meet. Not every new player will even try to listen to more experienced one at all.
Some new player get so used to others jumping around them left and right (*but new player*) so they don't even try to learn anything about the game themselves. And then we see these *aw he's a new player* at lvl 80 doing less dps than a healer. But ofc you're not allowed to tell them that they are not doing well and need to change things. And they get kicked silently. Because by the time you get to 80 you SHOULD know basics and rotation of the class you play. And you can find that info on the Internet. If you're interested enough.
Don't get me wrong, I respect every player in this game, new, veterans, etc and I understand that everyone needs their time. But as myself being new back in HW I was looking for every bit of info I could get, Google, people in DF, asking friends. Because I didn't want to be a burden for people who played that game for years, so finding info is not hard.