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  1. #61
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    Makeda's Avatar
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    Makeda Fyah
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    Quote Originally Posted by Machi_Machiavelli View Post
    In the real world, there is a legal test called expectation of privacy. It basically means there's no reasonable expectation of privacy in a certain area, general public areas mainly. Not sure how that would translate to the world of Hydaelyn.
    In the real world upskirting is also a crime in most places. US law varies so much by jurisdiction that I don’t want to generalize but I wouldn’t suggest being the fool to test it. Where it isn’t a crime yet is only because so far folks have been prosecuted under other charges or maybe have a state senator that likes hanging out in shopping malls... It is a crime in Korea, and I suspect also Japan (which is a much more conservative society than anime makes outsiders think it is, and in this regard the conservatism is likely to give women privacy rather than restrict it).

    So... be careful about carting out “reasonable expectations of privacy” ideas informed by badly written online fanfic...
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    Striving for perfection is the path to one's downfall. 'Tis the paradox of the immaculate carrot. | Jah Bless. One God, One Aim, and One Destiny - Marcus Garvey.
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  2. #62
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    Quote Originally Posted by Granyala View Post
    *looks at signature*
    Erm you run around like a ... girl for hire (to put it politely) and you wonder why the "creeps" flock to you?
    Reported for what is known as “shaming” with a certain expletive in front of it.

    Misogynistic “look at you, you must be a ****” attitudes are just as bad as creeps... actually they’re likely worse.
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    Last edited by Makeda; 08-20-2019 at 03:11 AM.

  3. #63
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    Quote Originally Posted by Makeda View Post
    Reported for what is known as “shaming” with a certain expletive in front of it.

    Taliban attitudes are just as bad as creeps...
    Petty attitude but Report away.
    Be mindful to the consequences of your actions though. (I know, highly unpopular in today's victim centered society)

    You are surrounded by teenagers with raging hormones in a videogame. Dress up like that and you WILL get the responses you're getting.
    Not saying it isn't their fault but you are making yourself a target. "Taliban" has nothing to do with it, I'm merely accounting for basic human nature.
    The "dresses" you wear (more like undressing the char about as much as the game lets you do) and the character design are meant to exploit it anyway.

    Quote Originally Posted by Makeda View Post
    Misogynistic “look at you, you must be a ****” attitudes are just as bad as creeps... actually they’re likely worse.
    I stated "you dress like one". Not that you are one. Big difference. Nothing misogynistic about it at all.

    Quote Originally Posted by RoyalBeef View Post
    What's with people announcing they reported someone? Is there some kind of medal for it? Or is it solely the dopamine rush?
    I find it rather hilarious that she even reports it b/c I wasn't even referring to her person but knowing the mods in these forums they probably oblige her and ban me.
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    Last edited by Granyala; 08-20-2019 at 03:18 AM.

  4. #64
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    Quote Originally Posted by Makeda View Post
    Reported for what is known as “shaming” with a certain expletive in front of it.

    Misogynistic “look at you, you must be a ****” attitudes are just as bad as creeps... actually they’re likely worse.
    What's with people announcing they reported someone? Is there some kind of medal for it? Or is it solely the dopamine rush?
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  5. #65
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    I don't care if Askala dresses like a lady of the night, I just wish she'd get some bangs.
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  6. #66
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    Quote Originally Posted by Granyala View Post
    I find it rather hilarious that she even reports it b/c I wasn't even referring to her person but knowing the mods in these forums they probably oblige her and ban me.
    Once you're assumed to be an ideological enemy you#re officially a target. I had people actively trying to bait me into saying something that's reportable ^^ Usually when you see something that really crosses a line and report is you move on with your day without a second thopught. It's only the crowd that takes everything personal that gets a sick thrill out of going "Ha! Gotcha! Who's the boss now huh? Who's the boss?!" ^^
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    Last edited by RoyalBeef; 08-20-2019 at 03:34 AM.

  7. #67
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    Quote Originally Posted by Granyala View Post
    Petty attitude but Report away.
    Be mindful to the consequences of your actions though. (I know, highly unpopular in today's victim centered society)

    You are surrounded by teenagers with raging hormones in a videogame. Dress up like that and you WILL get the responses you're getting.
    Not saying it isn't their fault but you are making yourself a target. "Taliban" has nothing to do with it, I'm merely accounting for basic human nature.
    The "dresses" you wear (more like undressing the char about as much as the game lets you do) and the character design are meant to exploit it anyway.
    That is a pretty messed up excusing sexual harassment like that, the standards expected of people are getting very low.
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  8. #68
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hash_Browns View Post
    They were just learning it from the lalafell NPCs!

    That lala from Costa del Sol is one thing but this guy wins all the lech awards.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rein_eon_Osborne View Post
    Healing DRK is literally... the same since ShB. The reason why people think it's a meme to heal nowadays because DRK receives very little to no buff to their sustainability vs 3 other tanks getting something useful. If you're capable of healing DRK back in ShB (or any tanks), then you'll heal EW DRK just fine.

  9. #69
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    Quote Originally Posted by jameseoakes View Post
    That is a pretty messed up excusing sexual harassment like that, the standards expected of people are getting very low.
    Nobody excused anything, they just explained why it was happening and why they can expect it. At no point did they say harassment is okay. It's like if you go into a bad neighborhood holding wads of cash in your hands where anyone can see, you cant be shocked if a homeless person comes up to you and begs for money. You have every right to tell them to piss off and be annoyed at them, but it's also something you probably should have seen coming.
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    Make SCH great again! Seriously though, we just want our class to be fun and engaging again, not OP, is that too much to ask for?

  10. #70
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    Quote Originally Posted by jameseoakes View Post
    That is a pretty messed up excusing sexual harassment like that, the standards expected of people are getting very low.
    As I said: I play a Miqo'te girl for 5 years now and never even got a compliment.
    So it's valid to assume that there is a correlation between how you dress and how people perceive you/approach you.
    I never excused their behavior and people that actually do harass other players should be reported.
    I merely gave a potential reason why she was a target.
    Whether people want to believe it or not, how we carry ourselves has consequences.
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