So, can we just ban damage meters already.

[Komarimono]

"You suck" isn't an acceptable way to broach any topic, unless you're some socially inept nerd playing a video game I guess. There's a right and wrong way to communicate; "You suck; you're being carried" is an insult. It's not helpful.

Honestly I feel you're heavily exaggerating the whole situation, since rarely if ever see these type of people you're complaining about. And saying someone sucks is just a simple statement. Even I've been guilty of it after getting tired of a healer dying over and over again on a simple boss mechanic, even after the entire party spent ten minutes explaining it in detail and me calling out when to use what.