Quote Originally Posted by Komarimono View Post
Because they need better gear or to research some, it's really that simple. It's not even hard to get gear, just grind same level dungeons if can't craft it/buy it until get decent gear to go onto the next level tiers.

In an MMO, the feeling and emotions of the one do not hold higher weight over the majority of the group. That way in life too oddly. If "you suck" then generally you need to improve your gear or play-style if people are noticing it.
"You suck" isn't an acceptable way to broach any topic, unless you're some socially inept nerd playing a video game I guess. There's a right and wrong way to communicate; "You suck; you're being carried" is an insult. It's not helpful.