Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Mistyregions]

(Continuations of my last post)

Then if you manage to snag a female friend, that can lead you to the dreaded obsessive one sided relationship or the friendzone because you are the very few if ONLY real interaction they had on a personal level (being open about feelings, sharing interests and maybe some psuedo sexual stuff). Honestly for the demographic of men in this particular situation its inevitable they dont have a ton of experience navigating these waters emotionally and it can lead to alot of bad things. In this case experiance is directly linked to maturity. That being said I would give them a pass in regards to this and explain it to them. They will learn or they wont. Dont endanger yourself but speak to them about how to emotionally navigate it. If you dont know how to educate them about it, point them to someone that can, usually a good Male role model you know.

Ultimately the lack of IRL social experience carries over into the game. IRL dynamics of dating are important to everyone because some forget there flesh sacks on the other side not just a robot. Dawn of the internet and social media and dating website and *threads* only made this worse. Unfortunately people who dont have much IRL experience tend to look towards stereotype methods without understanding the nuances that make it work. I mean I could go on forever about how people misinterpret confidence etc etc. Anyways rant over.

[Lacan]

Maybe because the title of the thread has "marriage partner" in it? If I'm looking to EB, I'm not looking to do so with another guy. Smh......

That's like going to a chicken-themed restaurant and being told by an employee that their specialty is chicken sandwiches, but if you MUST have chicken in that sandwich, that's a little fishy, and is a red flag to the company as a whole.

It's an ingame marriage anyway. If they're playing a girl character who cares? You've got guys in here playing as girls who are wanting to marry other girls ingame anyway.

[Maniclykin]

It's an ingame marriage anyway. If they're playing a girl character who cares? You've got guys in here playing as girls who are wanting to marry other girls ingame anyway.

I think personally for the person its about what they are comfortable with, even if looking for just in game I would assume you still want to enjoy that cute factor, emotes screenshot selfies whatever and some guys and or girls are just not comfortable do it with the sex that is not of their preference. Everyone got preferences and it is there choice to have

[Eldevern]

@Mistyregions

There is a part where you're mistaken : even if it is virtual and only for a glamour, straight people don't want to have to deal with the-whatever-flag trolling people will put on it.

[Lacan]

think it's been explained pretty well, maybe you're cool with it doesn't mean 99.9999% of the other people are. Honestly, why question the intent of the thread? It exists as it is and in general for the purpose of making a bond with another person which even females prefer to be of the opposite sex.

All you're really doing is just obnoxiously pushing your own thought process. lol.

I'm just saying it is pretty shady to advertise yourself as "looking for friends" when you're obviously looking for something more than that. Otherwise why get so curious about the other person's RL genitals? :v And you've already got girls reporting being harassed in here just for giving their discord out.

At least be upfront about what you want rather than trying to lure people in under the pretense of friendship. Don't make me get my spray bottle out.

[Lacan]

like 20 people just explained it to you, also nothing you said hasn't been said a few minutes ago. Go spray yourself. This isn't the white knight thread, get off your high horse.

I could break it down but everything you just said it littered with your own preconceptions and is basically ridiculous and lacks a basic understanding of how relationships work/begin.

my relationship didn't begin by telling someone I was looking for friends with specific genitals in a thread on a message board. :v

[Aelissa]

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Thank you!
I'm not so sensitive to be afraid of something like that. Blacklist button and a little patience can always help

Don't be discouraged or afraid to post. You may have regrets in life, don't let it be because you didn't try. At least if you do it you have a chance. and if it goes wrong you learn and grow from it.

Thank you! I'l try later when this discussion comes to an end.

Some make alts and join your FC and all.

I'd like to see it! It could be really fun because of language barrier. Not sure many of them can speak russian

[Afyde]

Thank you!
I'm not so sensitive to be afraid of something like that. Blacklist button and a little patience can always help


Thank you! I'l try later when this discussion comes to an end.


I'd like to see it! It could be really fun because of language barrier. Not sure many of them can speak russian

I have a couple of friends that speak other languages. I try to speak with them using google translate. Sometimes, its not what I mean't to say and it can be a little funny and embarrassing. They are very patient with me though. Good luck!


У меня есть пара друзей, которые говорят на других языках. Я пытаюсь говорить с ними с помощью Google Translate. Иногда это не то, что я имею в виду, не сказать, и это может быть немного смешно и стыдно. Они очень терпеливы со мной, хотя.Удачи!

[Mahoukenshi]

I'm just saying it is pretty shady to advertise yourself as "looking for friends" when you're obviously looking for something more than that. Otherwise why get so curious about the other person's RL genitals? :v And you've already got girls reporting being harassed in here just for giving their discord out.

At least be upfront about what you want rather than trying to lure people in under the pretense of friendship. Don't make me get my spray bottle out.

Dude, contrary to what you believe or try to persude yourself to be, you are NOT the chivalrous white knight in shining armor. You are not impressing anyone with "Don't make me get my spray bottle out."

[Mistyregions]

@Mistyregions

There is a part where you're mistaken : even if it is virtual and only for a glamour, straight people don't want to have to deal with the-whatever-flag trolling people will put on it.

I never mentioned that part or was discussing that part I was responding to a specific person and their question. I then answered it with what the thought process was and that it's not a red flag.