Reading some of the recent entries, there really is an issue with people blaming the healer for things. Recently had a group accuse me of being a shitty healer for DPSing too much. Now, our issue was primarily not meeting DPS checks, and the vast majority of deaths were either instant death mechanics like knockback or doing things like eating multiple vuln stacks. Sure, you may have been been at 80% health when the attack that killed you went off, but it's not my fault when the attack hit for over your max HP anyway.

People never notice when you do well, but God forbid you're not a perfect being capable of carrying the whole party on your back.