I'm telling you, party finder is your friend. Just today I joined an Innocence ex blind run party finder group. It filled rather quickly. We didn't clear it, but everyone left that group ready to clear it. You'll be very surprised at the amount of like-minded people you will run into if you just A.) Take the initiative to find said people, or B.) Keep your eyes open for it. Also, none of that is a stab at the OP, it's just a suggestion to help them out.