I disagree with the OP completely. I personally fell your asking the wrong question. Your asking the devs to rebuild the game around your inability to build a solid group. That benefits only you and removes the time devs should be investing for the population as a whole.

What I feel you should be asking for, or concerned about, is for them to change the situation making it difficult for you to find the group you need, not rebuild the game around your inability to form a group.

One of my sons has no right arm (lost it at the shoulder in a work accident) and I have never once noticed him demanding the world be redesigned for one armed lefty's. He simply looked for items and situations to allow him to adapt to the world.