Using autism and cancer in comments and as a derogatory term...

[RyuujinZERO]

TIL I'm intolerant of myself.

- One of OP's former FC members



Seriously though. Soul Assassin here dropped out of our company with nary a word said leaving us all scratching our heads; doubly so because he'd vanished off our friends lists too suggesting he didn't just leave the FC; but completely abandoned the shard and left us with no way to ask him what happened.

I've seen the "Your DPS gave me cancer" quote before; but I feel he's leaving out an important context: It was in the form of a multi-line ASCII macro of a moogle lying in a bed surrounded by other moogles, captioned 'Your DPS gave me cancer"; very uncouth and perhaps distasteful but, comically executed. It wasn't directed at Soul or anyone in particular, it was just one of the guys sharing a variety of silly macros he had prepared and on standby. The only time I ever saw it used was in a private party and even then, jokingly.

As for using 'autistic' as an insult; it might be me who was guilty of using that phrase; as well as "'sperging out" - referring to Asperger Syndrome. But here's the kicker... I'm on the autistic spectrum, I feel this is my 'my word' to use. Much like people in the black or gay community can use certain words others cannot without it being deemed horrifically offensive. (For context I tend to use it when someone is obsessing over minutia or displaying their extreme focus on a topic; something Soul did often )



Soul, if you had a problem you should have probably just brought it up with the people who said it, or an officer. Dropping out the FC with nary a word, transferring to a different server, and the creating a thread seeking pity seems like a rather extreme over-reaction

[Alucard135]

My Goal is achieved, thanks guys all your help has been appreciated. No matter how backward people feel I have gone about it, I literally have no mind to make any more comments.

Soul OUT!

So instead of directly telling your FC that something offended you. You decided to vanish from the data center, come here on the forums, start drama about it in hopes that your FC members would see it and realize that they have offended you?

-insert cancer metaphor here-

[Crystal_Raven]

My Goal is achieved, thanks guys all your help has been appreciated. No matter how backward people feel I have gone about it, I literally have no mind to make any more comments I felt it would have similarities to Brexit and I'll be here for years trying, 2 days not bad!

Soul OUT!

Hold on, so you dumped an FC, swapped data centers, instead of talking with your guild member about something you don't like to see and made a forum post about it.

That seems rather childish. And a pretty bad way of going about it.

[RyuujinZERO]

Hold on, so you dumped an FC, swapped data centers, instead of talking with your guild member about something you don't like to see and made a forum post about it.

We actually tried to contact him after he vanished to ask what happened, but because he'd switched data centers we couldn't even do that >.<

This is the first we've heard from him since then.

[Alucard135]

We actually tried to contact him after he vanished to ask what happened, but because he'd switched data centers we couldn't even do that >.<

This is the first we've heard from him since then.

I bet you guys are now happy that he left, given the other topic he started.

I pray for the other unfortunate FC on Aether that will accept him.

[AnnaRosa]

I bet you guys are now happy that he left, given the other topic he started.

I pray for the other unfortunate FC on Aether that will accept him.

Well I would accept him anytime because would not exclude him for such reason persons think differently after all and can tolerate or befriend with ea other even being different without being rude to one another.

That's the beauty of the internet.

What truly is going on under the all of this is people who dislike certain decade old subcultures walking into them and demanding them change and conform for the people not involved, it's similar to people who don't play FF yelling at square to make the game less "weaboo" and then they'll come play it but you all wrap it up into a morality thing, accusing those who don't conform of being immoral when all they're doing is participating in a subculture that's been around for ages.

On other hand completely understand that the OP clearly didn't like what he saw in FC chat and by his means decided to leave to another DC it means he accepts pretty well the reality he won't change the speech or the minds of those adopting such behavior so better let them be.

The OP just used the forum to express his displeasure which is nothing wrong about it the same way others expressing their discontent towards the changes.

If they do find self-realization and happiness with old slurs and unfunny jokes about illness or conditions is their word choice.

[Alucard135]

Well I would accept him anytime because would not exclude him for such reason persons think differently after all and can tolerate or befriend with ea other even being different without being rude to one another.

Keyword: Tolerate. Which OP has shown that he has zero of to the point he called others morons.
If you're someone that people need to watch every single thing they say because they think they might offend you without knowing, then that's not a person that thinks differently. That's a person better left alone.

[AnnaRosa]

Keyword: Tolerate. Which OP has shown that he has zero of to the point he called others morons.
If you're someone that people need to watch every single thing they say because they think they might offend you without knowing, then that's not a person that thinks differently. That's a person better left alone.

Am so sorry I disagree with you, usually do not tend to joke about illness in that public context I joke about my health problems and my most close one health problems in private because it helps me cope them, so in public including guilds you will never see me joking about such subject even if we had that impulse we couldn't because where we live is considered a hate speech crime, again in public.

So basically where we live the laws protect persons with health problems from harassment in public it is considered hate speech crime, either with illness or conditions and that is something I never did in public and won't see myself doing not even in my childhood or teenage, however we allow ourselves to joke in our privacy about ourselves with whatever we feel like we tried once with our doctor but he didn't like and we stoped there.

So what affects him within humor altho doesn't scratch you or others doesn't make him a less likable individual or that gives me feels in advance to exclude him as a friend game player.

After all we adjust each other to have fun an allow others to have fun too.

[Yunuen]

This thread was a wild ride up until page 16, lol.

[ScarboroughFairy]

-OP getting exposed as a fraud-

My Goal is achieved, thanks guys all your help has been appreciated. No matter how backward people feel I have gone about it, I literally have no mind to make any more comments I felt it would have similarities to Brexit and I'll be here for years trying, 2 sleeps not bad!

Soul OUT!

What a twist that those who'd claim others as being problematic is actually quite problematic themselves. This was a satisfying conclusion to a dumpster fire.