Should one tank in tank stance?

[Canadane]

At the end of the day it boils down to this: tanks are not the only people in the party. When they choose to do what they want it affects the rest of the group and often ruins the gaming experience for the rest of the group. My personal opinion is that one player shouldn't have the ability to affect other people's gameplay in such a manner. I often think of tanks as Divas. We've all asked that tank nicely to please stop dropping stance when things aren't going well. 99% of the time it is followed by some horrible comments usually something like do better healer. So my personal opinion will not change on the subject I do not think that one player should have the ability to ruin the experience for everyone else.

You personal opinion should be more malleable and open, rather than closed-minded. Open to new information. But hey that's just my personal opinion. Your opinion seems to be based on stress given to you by bad tanks. I encounter bad players of every role. It's a lot easier to just ignore them, excel at what I'm doing to help move on past them that much quicker.

Any idea how soul crushing it is being a tank and watching your healer die to avoidable AoE in the first 5 seconds of a boss fight?

BOY DO I!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WwdNVt3Zo0k
(Don't hate on Madelza, great healer just mistakes happen and it was fun fight to do)