Just had a guy report me because of 2 questions

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Not saying you needed to carry him though, just kick or leave instead of harassing him. Yes it is harassment even though you said you were "asking" him if he knew his abilities, it can be interpreted as "Do you even know how to play?"

And that right there is the problem; that people with a mindset like yours get to be GMs. If someone wants to interpret even the most harmless question and/or statement as harassment, they obviously have every right to do so - what shouldn't happen though, is for said someone to be put in a position of power where they have to objectively assess the behaviour of other, random people.

If things really happened like OP said they did, then it's pretty clear to most of us who was actually harassing someone. Maybe, just maybe, if someone doesn't want to communicate and doesn't care about their performance and how it affects others because "muh story", they should stick to watching cutscenes on YouTube.

Also, what exactly does kicking them accomplish? They'll just be a burden to the next group a few minutes later, especially if they're a tank.

They told everyone clearly they were just in it for the story and don't care for being a top-tier player. That was an excellent moment to accept that, drop it and leave them be.

That's not the point. It was new content for OP as well and they simply wanted to make life as easy as possible for the healers/the group as a whole and decided to communicate accordingly. That's the kind of behaviour you want to see from a sprout, it doesn't have anything to do with enforcing optimal play or wanting someone else to be a top-tier player.