Thank you for this post, OP. The message of "women as sexy, lingerie-wearing prey animals and men as bestial predators in leather and pelts" was greatly disappointing. SE has been wonderful about digging in with nuance in so many cases -- I had hoped for better from them, especially with "lore" as the reason given. Feeling like I was being told by the creators of the world I spend so much time in that there is no place for my self-expression really hurt.