
Originally Posted by
wereotter
The problem, as you overlooked, is for the person on the outside of the Discord group needing to both join the group, or know who the admin is and hope to have some way to contact that person in FFXIV, and then you have to hope that person is online at the same time as you, and if the person isn't on your server, you're going to have a much harder time contacting that person. It's not just "oh just send the admin a message!" because the message of who that person is isn't readily available, and goes back to my earlier comment that I would expect someone to trust the person in their group as opposed to the outside party. Hence why I don't trust the group to police itself.
Look I'm not defending bad behavior by any party, and this whole situation is just a giant mess that I'm opting out of participating in, but those who are part of a larger group have a responsibility to acting better than the terms of service allow exactly because their behaviour reflects back on everyone involved.
Also I don't think the discord group helped us as a region get better, it only served to further divide the community. People here already get really nasty when people are learning, or when people don't do what they expect, and rather than help someone improve, they will just kick you or they'll just take their proverbial ball and go home (remember skip soar or disband?) We as a community have a lot of maturing to do, and I don't think the discord group has helped us get there, if anything it's made things worse.