
Originally Posted by
Sigma-Astra
If you were paying attention towards the conversation between Watershield and I, as well as Feyt, you'd actually notice that it was civilized and an exchange of views. There was nothing belittling about it, but you only want to see what you wish to see as long as it aligns with your own due to misguided anger. What you're doing now is also counterproductive and doing EXACTLY what you lecture others on about.
Don't try to take the higher moral ground if you're just going to do EXACTLY what you don't like others doing to yourself apparently. It's not hard to act civilized and telling others to calm down or that you don't agree with their stance isn't belittling. No one ever said that you weren't important and too many people are swinging that word around like candy. Disagreements happen since not everyone is going to accept the same thing. You're just quick to anger because you feel that no one is taking your fears seriously and you'd be right in that sense. Some people aren't because we've been following the previous vague rules for years and nothing happened to us. I've played XIV for 7 years, nothing has happened in those 7 years, and I'm pretty sure nothing is going to happen for the next several years. Some of us don't have to take your fears seriously because we feel there's not enough substantial evidence to back up that overly alarmed behavior. I know change scares a lot of people and some are resilient towards it, but at some point, you're going to have to accept it because you can't control how things are changed nor is anyone in a position to fix it themselves.
And, if you can't accept other people having differing points of views in a civilized manner or them telling you to calm down your behavior because those other people find it to be hostile or exaggerating the issue without going on a hypocritical tangent where you're belittling and dismissing other people's opinions outright completely, not because you don't agree with them, but because you think they're useless; then, yes, I think you have a lot to worry about how you may come across in accordance with the new rules if this is the way you act in-game towards other people that may not share the same voice that you do because they're not SE. Two wrongs don't make a right. There's nothing wrong with dismissing an opinion that you don't agree with, that's fine so long as you're not saying so because they're stupid or something as that would never be acceptable, but calling it objectively useless because it's not what you want to hear is flat-out childish behavior and that is actually belittling because you're devaluing it and the person instead of simply saying "I just don't agree with it". There's nothing belittling about a person not agreeing with what you think or say; they simply just don't agree with you, that's it. I think I would have preferred you just dismissing it because you don't agree with it honestly, since I can't force you to see the other side and sometimes, you can't just convince people, it happens. There's no ideal or perfect world where we agree on everything and we shouldn't expect one honestly, it's not how ideas or debate happens where new perspectives are made.
If you wanted an answer from SE, then perhaps you should send them an in-game help message directly to the GM's instead of relying on the forums where you'll get complete strangers answering you first before they will. You may be waiting a long time for that.