I agree with everything you said, but this is the part that hurts the most. I'm trying to be as collaborative as I can these days, but it still bothers me. I'm better understanding and empathizing with the viewpoint of those players who felt like their specific version of FFXIV would be satisfied with something wildly new and particular and niche like this, but frequently it seems to be at the cost of the dashed hopes of many other players.
Edit: Just had another instance of this in another topic. I really should back away from these forums for a while...the hostility and entitlement is ridiculous.