Elitist behaviour in dungeons: [venting]

[miraidensetsu]

Oh whoa, talk about "elitist" and "toxic" behaviour. I have occasionally pulled some extra monsters to the group as a healer. In these cases, I have pulled them directly to the tank, Holy stunned them right away, reduced my own enmity and helped burn them down while keeping myself and everyone else alive. Usually it has made the tank pull more the next round. No one has asked me to stop, but if that had happened, I of course would have. And luckily no one has followed your example in being spiteful about it either.

I've never done that. But I've saw over this forum and Reddit several cases of tank mains shirking someone who likes to pull for the tank. And if you die, it's on you.

No one here is condoning blaming and flaming though. Everyone is a member of the same team and communication goes both ways.

Everyone is a member of the same team. But, if you fail to consider the group's dynamics or to communicate with the tank, the falt is all yours.

[miraidensetsu]

Being elitist just means doing the best you can, in a better/more efficient way than the average player, at least that's what I meant by it.

Being an elitist means "one who is an adherent of elitism: one whose attitudes and beliefs are biased in favor of a socially elite class of people". And can also mean "regarding other people as inferior because they lack power, wealth, or status : snobbish".

Who says that is not me. Is Merriam-Webster dictionary. If you are a elitist, you are snobbish.

If you mean that you give the effort to be good, you are not an elitist. You are hardworking.

Behaving elitist is where you take it the step further and act out on your "elitism", essentially putting yourself higher than everyone else and acting as such.

As such how? Remembering everytime they owes you for your generosity to go at their rat levels to show how it is done? And to remember that healer who done less than a 95 percentile performance is just a thrash and should uninstall this game right now for good? Those asshole moves is behaving elitist.

I consider myself an elitist, since I've done some of the dungeons so many times that I memorize literally every rotation the bosses do, so I get to the spot where adds will spawn, so I can instantly pick them up or get to where the safezone for a mechanic will be or whatever else happens next in the fight. (if I tank that is)

But if I get the feeling that, let's say, the healer is relatively new, I'll start my pace slow, so they don't get overworked.

If you slow the pace, you aren't elitist. Elitist would never change something on their own for someone they think inferior. True elitists would call the healer all names before initiate a vote kick on him.

You're in truth a hardworking player.

[Misurugi]

I'm just going to add my 2 cents in here.. you've got the classifications of different types of players..

The Elitist, players whom knows they are good and will show off and prove it. They can be nice, silent, or jackasses.

The Mentor, players whom are knowledgeable and skilled and are willing to assist other players.

The Newb. Players whom are new to content and have very little skill/knowledge.

Then there is the Noob. players whom believes they have all that and a bag of chips.

Patience is a virtue, I've been in every role. Every so often i take a brake from a game... i come back have to dust the rust off, as a tank. I pull slow to get into the rhythm/ see how skilled the healer is. And if I see the healer is dpsing more then healing... I pull more. As a healer. If I see that the tank is moving slow, I make a comment go as fast as you need to. I don't pull extra... i hate that as a tank, why would I do that to other ppl? There's a reason a tank pulls slowly. A they aren't sure about how much dmg they are capable of taking, B they don't know how skilled the healer is.. and C, they aren't sure as to what they are doing... I've seen tanks at 70 who think they can pull big and get wasted in the blink of an eye. As a tank. I want to make sure I know I have complete control of the mobs. Someone pulls more and drags them over. chances are... I stopped at that many because A, I'm out of buffs and know I'll get hit far harder then I can take before a buff comes back, thus a wipe. Which has happened. B I'm at my limit, or C, that's all I'm comfortable with.

Tl;Dr. Chill, relax, play the game, and have fun your way. With out intentionally impeding the fun of others

[FFgame]

Nope, don't care. Pull big or go home.

70 level dungeons isn't the learning process, it's the exam. 90% of tanks pass.

[DamianFatale]

Dungeons are not EX, Raids, Ranked PVP, Savage, or Ultimate content. You want to be a big boy/girl, then go prove it in hard content.

[DamianFatale]

Nope, don't care. Pull big or go home.

70 level dungeons isn't the learning process, it's the exam. 90% of tanks pass.

Ask the healer first.

[Xtrasweettea]

Ask the healer first.

It is socially implied that the "tens" dungeons (50s/60s, 70s, and Expert) are all big pull (at least 2x packs or to first barrier, minimal). If a healer doesn't want big pulls, the healer needs to state that up front prior to first pull. The healer is the one who is going against the socially implied norm.

[Starflake]

Ask the healer first.

In what world does this fella live in? We are talking about level 70 dungeons. I use healer most of the time in experts and even with the worst tanks I can dish out quite a lot of DPS. Big packs in level 70 content are not scary, they are the norm, especially in expert. It's not unreasonable to start from the point of expecting basic competence. Ask first he says. My lord have mercy.

[ServerCollaps]

Everyone is a member of the same team. But, if you fail to consider the group's dynamics or to communicate with the tank, the falt is all yours.

except the tank only talks french/german and wont listen to any other language, welcome to european datacenters

[ElroyDrundan]

It is socially implied that the "tens" dungeons (50s/60s, 70s, and Expert) are all big pull (at least 2x packs or to first barrier, minimal). If a healer doesn't want big pulls, the healer needs to state that up front prior to first pull. The healer is the one who is going against the socially implied norm.

The exception to this is gearing, I've had some tanks try and do the huge pulls with crap gear, probably just recently hit 50/60 etc. It either didn't go well or it was actually slower as I couldn't dps much and was just doing everything to keep them alive.

I love the big pulls, dpsing as much as I possibly can while keeping the tank alive. Just recently I had a Burn group, tank wasn't super geared but not horrible. He pulled one group at at time, it was slower, but mostly it was just boring.

Interestingly enough it was only about 6ish mins slower for the total dungeon run. What I realized then was it was just as much about the fun as it was the time.

That said it certainly wasn't worth throwing a fit or really even making a comment, we (me and the two dps, just did what we do, just not quite so much as we normally do