How would an optional, official parser be toxic?

[Aerlana]

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Yes, watching logs for example. logs not only show "the top players" you can see the DPS at the 75 percentil. it is the DPS where 25% people are doing more, and 75% are doing less.
Right now, if i watch on FFlogs for O9S, the DPS of the 75th percentil is from 5900 (ninja) to 6900 (samurai).
Now, lets go to O9S savage, mechanics are done well, but third try, third wipe on enrage. you see your parser, and find a samurai with 4k5 DPS... Yes he is bad. Now here is the deal
1) i says him to move his ass and get better DPS => toxic because i want him to play better
2) i kick him to take a new melee that will do enough damages => toxic because i kick
3) i stay with him, without saying anything, hoping a miracle.
4) disband

You want the 3, you choice. Me i prefer first saying him he has to be better, and if it doesnt show any improvement, sadly ill kick him...



Now for farms situation same logic. i go watch the 75th percentil because i want to farm fast. (so get some quite fast clear) DPS are from 5k to 5k8. if i find the kills quite slow, and see a guy at 4k...


FUN FACT : no need to FFlogs most of time to see there is a matter... i never used worldoflogs (or warcraftlogs now) to know it when i was raid lead.
Just, i see some people really far behind... like a healer doing half the work the others are doing. or a DPS doing far less than any other. Rarely i had situation where i had doubt and had to mind about strength/weakness of the class on this fight.
And parsers not only show DPS/HPS. damages receive, number of dispells (more fight ask it in WoW) number of interrupt cast, overhealing. The wow parser i have also show me how muchthis heal did get mana back during fight (helping to understand why he is so low than the others... easier to give him advices). With just one fight, you can get numerous information about playstyle when you take the time to read it fully... To kick people that dont have their spot in THIS party. and also seeing any matter to give advice !

When anyone create a party, HE decides the rules. if he decides to get only elite people, over the 90th percentil, or really open minded and take anyone over the 25th percentil, it is his matter.
Where is the toxicity there? because i am not enough openminded to carry anyone thru the farm or in the savage content? It is this the "toxicity" you fear about official parser?