Well, to be blunt did you mess up the fight bad enough to be kicked? Did you keep the tether in the group, get nailed by every attack, etc? If you know you are doing ok, if they do that just ignore the people, they are tools. Even if you make a wiping mistake, it happens, if its bad or they hassle, apologize. But own up a bit if it was your fault, even if they were jerks in how they kicked you. If it was unwarranted, you don't need to make a post about it; people are idiots. If it is a little, they are still rude, but work on what got people killed by practicing.

I just don't automatically assume everyone deserves a kick and a rude response.