I'm pretty sure we've got to the point where its become clear again that the dude just wants the gear but doesn't want to do any of the work outside their niche. If it was really about just ilevel you'd have done any of the suggestions that have already been put on offer, hell people who don't care about BIS have a higher ilevel than me and I'm a BIS tank and I've been stuck there for months.

Just like in life the rewards you get in this game are directly proportional to the effort that you put in. Considering all the excuses I'm seeing here you aren't willing to put in any effort that takes you out of your comfort zone, so that's where you'll be stuck.