
Originally Posted by
fumofu
My point is, it goes both ways. Raids aren't there 'just for fun. It's meant for players who yearn for a challenge and have a desire to improve. And they shouldn't be entered with 'just for fun' attitude. Want raid? You better watch guides and study/train your rotations, gear up and enter properly prepared. And that's totally acceptable and expected, cos it's end game, and at that point any player should be totally familiar with the game and have a clear understanding what kind of content is most appealing for him and be able to make a decision for which path to take: easy path of casual player or painful and hard path of a raider.
Therefore, there's no excuse for entering savage raid 'just for fun'.
To answer your first point:
It all depends on which kind of content you're talking about. If you mean regular dungeons - I understand your pain, but in this case you have plenty of choices by yourself. Either form party with your friends and play it your way, or if you're playing with random players, just try doing your best. Can also try giving some advice. And there's always an option of leaving dungeon and eating that penalty. It's all cool.
And there's plenty of reasons why people can play badly. But let's not get into detail...
Next: emnity management. Primary that's job of a tank. That means tank is expected to hold agro at all times and if he fails at that - that's his problem first and foremost. You understand? People expects tank to tank. And agro management skills for other jobs? Well, if we're talking about job unique actions like DRG elusive jump or NIN shadewalker and smoke screen then aye, if you have them - feel free to use them if situation requires. But if we're talking about role actions - they're optional. That means, if I don't want - i don't have to take it. Casual playstyle is not necessary about optimality and efficiency, but about fun above all else.
Also, there might be a matter of principle. Tank must hold mobs. Period. I don't care about his dps, I'm even cool if he's 100% in tank stance and does only agro combo and skills, because that's his main job. To hold mobs. Tank in dps stance and mobs run around attacking everyone except tank? That's bad tank then. As dps I might not even have any emnity reducing skills on my skill bar, and why should I? My job is dps, and if I have skills to reduce my emnity - sure I can use it. But as tank I will NEVER ever blame other dps for ripping my aggro and not using emnity reducing skills, because I know that if as tank I don't hold mobs on me - I'm bad tank. Or my gear sucks....well, you got the point.