This was at he OP....I still don’t know how to properly post using my phoneSnip!!!
I have read the entirety of the thread and the issue is your wording. Everyone has different perceptions on words that are thrown down on a page and this obviously made some people angry. Hopefully in the future you are more careful with your words. But, kudos for manning up and apologizing. It takes guts to admit fault. This thread will die off soon enough
And as such, you are literally doing nothing but perpetuating the car crash. There's a time to call it quits and move along, we passed that point a good 20 pages back sadly.No? If everyone else is allowed to give opinions and act needlessly hostile under poor pretenses then I'm free to say something about it, especially when it involves behaviour directed at another player. I couldn't care less what transpired since or if I'm "ruining" it, my posts don't need to automatically halt any previous discussion.
*edit* and no, I'm pointing at you because the others at least contributed positively to the discussion at hand before rather daftly allowing themselves to get drawn into this mush. My point does stand with them as well though, minus the gifs ofc!
Lets have a nice reset on this discussion please <3
Last edited by Sebazy; 06-02-2018 at 09:04 AM.
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You & Me have a different view on Toxicity
This "in my opinion" looks like a personal attack comment.
Last edited by Ruf; 06-02-2018 at 09:34 AM.
@Whoever was posting meme gifs:
I don't really want to stir the pot, nor am I really wanting to take sides on anything, but... posting meme gifs is really unnecessary and it tends to be very much frowned upon.
Oftentimes when I see stuff like that, I usually roll my eyes. If you can't convey what you mean by simply typing it out, then perhaps you should not be using a forum. Or perhaps you should keep such thoughts in your head instead of dumping a gif in the forum, one that is usually meant to be snippy, snarky, and generally the kind of thing that just fans the flames and gets people ticked off at you.
Then a heated debate/argument/what-not happens, you feign innocence and it really doesn't work. You can't spray gasoline on a house fire and then tell the cops that you didn't start the fire and therefore are not responsible for the damage.
Take this from a former moderator from a MMO that had a far worse community than this one. Maeka gave some advice. You doubled down on the asshattery. You keep doing it to everyone in this thread. Perhaps it's time for me to stop dancing, and to be blunt for once.
You are not doing yourself any favors. Your self awareness is quite lacking, it appears you automatically assume the worst of anyone who does anything you perceive as a personal slight even if it was supposed to be advice, and you should probably really, really stop. It's usually a pretty bad omen when you teeter dangerously close to making me look rather critically at you as a person rather than as a simple forum poster.
Last edited by SaitoHikari; 06-02-2018 at 10:44 AM.
"Consider this old adage: When a Bard sings alone in a desert, and no one is around to hear him... Is he truly singing?"
My comment was referring more to their decision not to just directly quote me when the context made it so obvious. Something, something, the terrible sin of passive aggression, something. They haven't been reading closely if they thought my gif usage triggered off the discussion.
Oh, dear. I will of course cease posting immediately in case the opinion of someone I don't know and have never talked to decreases further.It's usually a pretty bad omen when you teeter dangerously close to making me look rather critically at you as a person rather than as a simple forum poster.
When it comes to harder content(Ex,Savage,Ulti), I care about the other 7 members in my group. That being said I try my hardest to make whatever I'm currently running go as smooth as possible. A lot of people don't know how they're doing and coast by without ever really knowing they're under performing, which has lead to some rather uncomfortable situation like the post mentioned about about the Sam/Drg. If a rating or something was implemented at the end of a duty I think it would quell some of those issues. I know everyone would feel a lot better losing to a roll that was equally earn as a group.
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