[Suggestion] Make "remove from friends list" 2-way

[MOZZYSTAR]

I get the sneaking suspicion that Cactaur server has become the drama server. Just look what happened in that 4K dps thread.

Hate to point it out, but a.) that comment is not constructive in the slightest and completely uncalled for. You should not generalise an entire group of people based on two things you've seen. I would say this is stirring up more drama than my own comment. b.) 4k DPS thread is irrelevant to this one (personally not following it, don't care about it), c.) my own comment wasn't meant to be dramatic as I have no issues with the people I removed from my list. I just wasn't fond of the fact they could still moogle mail me when I can't moogle mail them. d.) I hail from Jenova, my friend.

Please don't blow things out of context and make assumptions. Thanks.


Edit:

Only wondering. You guys are talking about one sided deleting, so doesnt the another person even know that some of you guys are offended/creeped out in anyway. Did you say even *Sorry, but i gonna block you or not going to be friends anymore* or is it more like * didnt like what you said and just deleted/blocked* without even saying it. Some people didnt know they did anything wrong so for some they see a old friend again.

I'm not entirely sure what you're saying... If you're asking if someone is notified whether or not they were removed from your friend's list or added to block, then no they're not unless they're sharing a house together and they happen to be online. It shows up as something "X is no longer sharing a house with you," etc. (But even then, that doesn't necessarily mean they unfriended you.)

As for the latter... I would say it depends on the person. For me, I just remove people I no longer regularly game/dungeon/raid with, et cetera. No falling outs, just naturally drifted apart. I don't see the point of keeping them on my friends' list if we don't game together. I don't notify them (and they likely didn't notify me).

I don't think I can comment on your experience, other than I think it's fairly common that people stop associating with each other after they change FCs (which is a shame. :/ Tried to make it work out plenty of times before myself, but to no avail).