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These are some good points too.
There's also the fact that some of us just want to relax and have a little fun in a video game.
Some of us are not MLG. And that's totally fine in my opinion. If I'm not MLG, I don't try to act like MLG and I don't do things like Savage Raids. I know I'm not on that level of play, and I don't have the time and the skill to be on that level of play.
Someone above said "You should always improve yourself!" Eh, maybe? I don't know, if I'm having fun, nobody's dying, and we're clearing the content just fine, I'm not really seeing where there's a problem. If I throw out some extra heals, no big deal. Seriously. It isn't a big deal whatsoever. We'll all live at the end of the day.
Don't worry about me dragging my noob rear end into Savage, because I'm not going to do it. I know I'm not for Savage Raiding, and I have no current plans on touching it.
I "love" (sarcasm) it when some MLG Savage Raider or two pops up and acts like everybody should be acting at the peak of efficiency full-time even for Sastasha or Baby Ifrit or whatever. Seriously.
I wonder how they possibly have fun in the game when they are constantly crunching numbers... "I bet you could kill Ifrit 2 seconds faster if you casted that one extra Stone and let the tank get down to 1% HP at the very end!" or something... oi.
I know I'm being facetious here, but I just can't understand how people have fun in a video game while constantly over-analyzing and over-scrutinizing things. That's just not fun to me. If I wanted to do something like that, I'd get a degree in engineering and I'd go work at some place that those skills would be used, because I'm going to do that much work, I want paid for that.
Maybe some healers are more prone to getting nervous especially in dungeons they are unfamiliar with? *shrug* I guess we're not allowed to have emotions, right? We should all be robots that are constantly calculating just how many stones and aeroes we can squeeze in, just how low we can let the tank go before they die?
Personally, as a tank, I HATE that with a passion. I hate being almost dead constantly because the healer thinks his icon is red instead of green.