Exactly, we are treated like a errant boy/girl even though we came to help this group to prove the truth about Ivalice, which means that its mostly us sticking our head in pure deathly danger while a big amount of the group does nothing. Shouldnt it be the reverse? That they would bring us something as a thank you? Yet we dont get much payment for the dangers, have to listen to Ramza talking us down and travel half the world for a wine that barely anyone of those could even afford it.
But this is not FF12 and they already paid a huge amount of fanservice and homage to it with the whole raid and background story. And yes I dont care about Ivalice that much because I never played that FF. Yet I am still fine about learning more about the place, its people, the lore IN FF14. I dont care about one bottle of wine especially if its part of a boring filler quest that sents you around and reminded probably quite some people of the tedious 2.0 fetch quests.
Again its fine to put in references thus they could have let us get to x to gather the wine and get back and then tell us a story about it and maybe more informations about the theater group. That would be a good reference. Not a quest line on the way to unlock a whole 24 man raid that is full of filler, two really small bits of information about Ivalice, a WoL that does shady things (but yes atleast the one receiving it is shady too) and takes at least two days to do that while the realm itself might have had better use for us. Oh and on top of that you can strongly see how they play it a bit like a joke.