I ignore the people that rage when I go after silver chests.
Granted at this point in the game, yes; there is ZERO NEED for aetherpool weapons.
But some folks want them anyway, for the glamour.
And that's just fine. I will also help those people get the blue chests even when on my miqote, that has all the tank aetherpool weapons and is at 99/99. Because I remember the slog of getting there when other people were raging at me... (I did that all during Heavensward too, when those weapons mattered).
If people got issues with somebody in content actually running that content... that's on them. Ignore the ragers. If they vote you out... just queue back in. PotD is the one place that all roles can queue equally for.
One thing I will say... the more you can avoid level 51-60, the easier it is to avoid the 'go go go' community. They just farm that on repeat. Granted even 61-70 has a rather long queue to enter some times as a result... but once you get off of 51-60, the groups you get tossed in to are more likely to be friendly about helping get various goals.
So your best bet at a drama free experience, is what I did for my Elezen on later runs - just let them rush you through 51-60, then hit 61+ and while there... ignore the 'go go go' ragers and go after all those blue chests. Then reset back to 51-60 every time the queue is taking too long, let them rush you on 51-60, and then enjoy above it for a bit...
- Yes I missed some chests as a result... but it wasn't all that bad. There seems to be fewer blue chests the lower the level (if that's not true... it's a handy delusion to have... it makes it less stressful to see a floor pass by if you think it had low odds of a blue chest...)