In OP's defense, the aetherytes in Heavensward were really poorly placed. CWH and Azys Lla have them in the extreme corners of the maps, Sea of Clouds and Dravanian Forelands have two but aren't really central, and Dravanian Hinterlands doesn't even have one at all. The problem gets a lot better when you can fly, but if you die in Lost Gnath during the main story before you have flight you have to run from Tailfeather all the way north and around to get back in. Player graveyards don't really make sense in the lore, since we're essentially immortal demigods, but more convenient access points would be nice.