Aye agreed, I think the reality lies somewhere in the middle really.
She certainly isn't useless, she still has Embrace and Union after all, and a DPS buff is a DPS buff no matter how you look at it.
On the flipside, the DPS buff has also historically been highly overrated in the past when in reality, it's a fairly minor buff all told. Nothing like as impactful as Chain for example (which arguably could/should have been a Selene ability in the first place, great work job design team).
One amusing titbit I will add tho. Go back to early SCOB where I was having to progress on SCH as per the norm. Selene was viewed as the absolute go to Fairy and many people would view you as a total scrub if you dared to use Eos. I posted some math and examples on reddit showing my opinion that actually, leaning on Eos's additional healing and simply DPSing yourself was actually more productive overall. To say I got laughed into downvote oblivion over that one would be an understatement, it seems that I got the last laugh tho, especially once the woefully misleading tooltips got corrected![]()