It's always amazing to me how some people assume that individuals with developmental disorders or chronic illnesses are going to stop and complain about every little thing without trying to handle it themselves first. Like you don't go through dealing with sensory issues like this your entire life going "MMMMmmm I can't wait to explain why I can't deal with certain noises to strangers who don't understand my condition at all".

Trying to standup for yourself and ask for solutions to problems that make the game unplayable for you isn't easy and OP has done an excellent job at explaining exactly where the issue is and how SE could work to amend it. I hope they do provide a more satisfactory solution in the long-run.