
Originally Posted by
LadyKairi
And you have mental problems if you think every mentor is just in it for the crown. You are so far out from reality, its astonishing. The fact you cannot separate reality from your own little world proves it. That statement is insanely rude, and the worst post in this thread so far. It truly speaks volumes about you as a person. Stop lumping us good mentors with those horrible excuses of mentors. Not all of us are horrible.
I became a mentor a long time ago, because i genuinely wanted to help others. I felt I had a good understanding of every fight (ex and normal modes), and I always made sure to know what I was doing so I could help others. Every duty (mentor roulette or not), I always try to be kind to others and defend those who get picked on. At first, I would always try to politely give rotation tips to players like ice mages, but I was always met with hostility and rudeness. After that, I just stuck to teaching mechanics.
I have never been in it for the crown, the so called "status", the mount.. I have done the roulette enough that I did receive my mount, but to this day I still do the roulettes to help. I'm always that mentor that stays in ex primal groups, even though I had many chances at leaving without penalty. I am always that mentor who stays with a group until they want to give up, or the duty timer runs out. I was always that mentor that would leave the duty without penalty and come back on a different/harder to find role to make the run refill faster, even if I didn't get credit for the clear. I have helped many people get various different clears. I always try to be perky and polite, even though I am horribly shy, but I still have my days where my patience runs thin. I have done my best to be a role model, to better myself, to help those in need. I have smiled through and tolerated so much abuse to myself by inconsiderate twats, and I will be damned if you lump me in with those mistakes of mentors. Get a reality check.
You don't even understand the amount of hate that was thrown my way, even for just being nice (seriously had someone yell at me for it). I know for a fact I am not the only person to experience this, so I can understand if a mentor just snaps. I have come close to snapping many a time, but I always try to stay relaxed. I love being a mentor, and I take great pride in being one. It is incredibly insulting to be automatically lumped into the bad mentor category just because I'm a mentor, when I do my hardest to be the opposite. People like you do not breed motivation to be one of the good ones. If we are just going to be lumped in with the crappy mentors no matter what we do, then why should we bother to try to be better? You don't know every single mentor in the world, you have never ran with every single mentor in the world, so stop acting like you know why we do what we do and what we do. Again, get a reality check please, and stop making generalizations about people you don't even know because you had a couple bad experiences. It's not right, and its not fair to those of us who actually try to do good in the game.